It is not new that there is a disproportionate in everything in life. Relativity. What is difficult for some is not so complicated for others.
The problem is that when something is irrelevant to some, others belittle it. There is no respect for the other's difficulty.
We all have initial difficulties in common. Learn to lift your head, crawl, stand, walk, run, as a baby; Tying a shoelace, holding a fork, jumping and not falling as a child; Read write...
Differences begin at a certain age, but that doesn't make anyone better or worse than anyone else.
Overcoming difficulties depend on two things. From previous experiences and how we deal with problems.
Previous experiences have meant that we have pre-made keys to deal with a similar uncomfortable situation.
Nobody belittles a child for not knowing how to use the potty or for not being able to brush their teeth by themselves, as we have all been there.
Nobody belittles a child for not knowing how to use the potty or for not being able to brush their teeth by themselves, as we have all been there.
How we deal with problems depends on how we are encouraged to face the problems.
These are two important points. The first is that we have lost the ability to discern and be empathetic.
Society insists on pushing everyone on the same path with the same results and demanding perfection. If these are not reached, the humiliation is certain. Hence the dilemma of not being able to make mistakes.
The other and not the least point is that we are overprotecting the most vulnerable in all aspects of life. In a way, to avoid suffering, but suffering is part of maturing.
Today there are people in their 50s who have not yet been able to dare. I don't say anything grand, but in simple things like ordering a different dish to avoid the risk of the other choice not being good.
Previous experiences are necessary for success in what they intend to do to be achieved. Unfortunately, we will need to be rolled up, stolen, deceived, dropped, unjustly defamed, to create "shells" and to know how to deal with extreme situations.
The leaders, rich, famous, masters, bosses were not the ones who had the easiest access (of course, there are exceptions, but not all of them), but they were the ones who were most subjected to pressure.
If we give something to everyone, they may lose everything in the first difficulty and will not be able to recover.
Any being that needs to hatch needs strength to break the shell. If we try to help by breaking the shell, he dies.
The facilities provided are the illusion of a better life. So repeating. Overcoming difficulties depend on two things. From previous experiences and how we deal with problems.
Simple like this! Simple like that!
